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OSt |
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001205s2001 nyu b 001 0 eng |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
9780060956165 [paperback] |
| 040 ## - CATALOGING SOURCE |
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| Transcribing agency |
University of Cebu-Banilad |
| 082 00 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER |
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| Edition number |
21 |
| 100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor. |
| Relator term |
author. |
| 245 14 - TITLE STATEMENT |
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| Title |
The dance of connection : |
| Remainder of title |
how to talk to someone when you're mad, hurt, scared, frustrated, insulted, betrayed, or desperate / |
| Statement of responsibility, etc |
Harriet Lerner. |
| 250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT |
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| Edition statement |
First Quill edition. |
| 260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC. (IMPRINT) |
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| Place of publication, distribution, etc |
New York : |
| Name of publisher, distributor, etc |
HarperCollins, |
| Date of publication, distribution, etc |
c2001. |
| 300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION |
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| Extent |
xiv, 256 pages ; |
| Dimensions |
25 cm. |
| 336 ## - CONTENT TYPE |
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| Content type term |
text |
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rdacontent |
| 337 ## - MEDIA TYPE |
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| Media type term |
unmediated |
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rdamedia |
| 338 ## - CARRIER TYPE |
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| Carrier type |
volume |
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rdacarrier |
| 504 ## - BIBLIOGRAPHY, ETC. NOTE |
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| Bibliography, etc |
Includes bibliographical references and index. |
| 520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC. |
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| Summary, etc |
The key problem in relationships, particularly over time, is that people begin to lose their voice. Despite decades of assertiveness training and lots of good advice about communicating with clarity, timing, and tact, women and men find that their greatest complaints in marriage and other intimate relationships are that they are not being heard, that they cannot affect the other person, that fights go nowhere, that conflict brings only pain. Although an intimate, long-term relationship offers the greatest possibilities for knowing the other person and being known, these relationships are also fertile ground for silence and frustration when it comes to articulating a true self. And yet giving voice to this self is at the center of having both a relationship and a self. Much as she did in THE MOTHER DANCE, Lerner will approach this rich subject with tales from her personal life and clinical work, inspiring and teaching readers to speak their own truths to the most important people in their lives. |
| 541 ## - IMMEDIATE SOURCE OF ACQUISITION NOTE |
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| Department |
Senior High School |
| Subject Category |
General Interest: Self Help. |
| 546 ## - LANGUAGE NOTE |
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| Language note |
English |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Interpersonal communication. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Intimacy (Psychology) |
| 942 ## - ADDED ENTRY ELEMENTS (KOHA) |
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| Source of classification or shelving scheme |
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| Type of record |
Book |
| 998 ## - LOCAL CONTROL INFORMATION (RLIN) |
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| Encoded by |
adryann[new] |
| Date encoded |
10/28/2025 |
