TY - BOOK AU - Tannen,Deborah TI - You just don't understand: women and men in conversation SN - 0345372050 PY - 1990/// CY - New York PB - Morrow KW - Communication in marriage KW - Interpersonal communication KW - Sex differences (Psychology) N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Contents: Different words, different worlds -- Asymmetries: women and men talking at cross-purposes -- "Put down that paper and talk to me!": rapport-talk and report-talk -- Gossip -- "I'll explain it to you": lecturing and listening -- Community and contest: styles in conflict -- Who's interrupting? issues of dominance and control -- Damned if you do -- "Look at me when i'm talking to you!": cross talk across the ages -- Living with assymetry: opening lines of communication ER -