000			02053cam a22003014a 4500
003			OSt
005			20251028132511.0
008			001205s2001 nyu b 001 0 eng
020			_a9780060956165 [paperback]
040			_cUniversity of Cebu-Banilad
082	0	0	_221
100	1		_aLerner, Harriet Goldhor. _eauthor.
245	1	4	_aThe dance of connection : _bhow to talk to someone when you're mad, hurt, scared, frustrated, insulted, betrayed, or desperate / _cHarriet Lerner.
250			_aFirst Quill edition.
260			_aNew York : _bHarperCollins, _cc2001.
300			_axiv, 256 pages ; _c25 cm.
336			_atext _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _2rdacarrier
504			_aIncludes bibliographical references and index.
520			_aThe key problem in relationships, particularly over time, is that people begin to lose their voice. Despite decades of assertiveness training and lots of good advice about communicating with clarity, timing, and tact, women and men find that their greatest complaints in marriage and other intimate relationships are that they are not being heard, that they cannot affect the other person, that fights go nowhere, that conflict brings only pain. Although an intimate, long-term relationship offers the greatest possibilities for knowing the other person and being known, these relationships are also fertile ground for silence and frustration when it comes to articulating a true self. And yet giving voice to this self is at the center of having both a relationship and a self. Much as she did in THE MOTHER DANCE, Lerner will approach this rich subject with tales from her personal life and clinical work, inspiring and teaching readers to speak their own truths to the most important people in their lives.
541			_ySenior High School _zGeneral Interest: Self Help.
546			_aEnglish
650		0	_aInterpersonal communication.
650		0	_aIntimacy (Psychology)
942			_2ddc _cBK
998			_cadryann[new] _d10/28/2025
999			_c14582 _d14582